Author Archive : Kelly Jamieson

More love

By Kelly.Jamieson on February 14, 2012

If you’ve ever wondered how a ménage à trois relationship can exist without jealousy, the concept of compersion might help explain it. Compersion could be considered the opposite of jealousy and is a concept that is widespread within the polyamorous community.

 “Compersionis a state of empathetic happiness and joy experienced when an individual's current or former romantic partner experiences happiness and joy through an outside source, including, but not limited to, another romantic interest. This can be experienced as any form of erotic or emotional empathy, depending on the person experiencing the emotion.” Wickipedia

So a man who loves a woman feels empathetic happiness when she is happy. This is not so difficult to understand, right? We all do things to make the ones we love happy, such as picking out a special gift or giving them a massage or cooking their favorite dinner. We all get that warm empathetic feeling when our loved ones are happy. So following that thought, instead of feeling jealous when another man makes love to his wife, the husband might feel happy because she is happy, and he loves her. He might also feel aroused, because she’s aroused.

To be honest, I’m not writing from experience here.

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I love bad boys

By Kelly.Jamieson on October 25, 2011

How many of us love a romance where the bad boy gets tamed by the love of a good woman? I’ll admit to being a sucker for a hot bad boy hero in a romance.

How about if the bad boy gets tamed not just by the love of a good woman — but also by the love of a good man?

There are many qualities the typical bad boy heroes share —they are reckless, fearless, charismatic, smart and brave. He can be a rebel, perhaps bitter, probably carrying some baggage. Much has been written about why women find the bad boy so appealing.

If the appeal to women is redeeming the bad boy, he obviously has to have some good qualities that he keeps hidden. We have to know that he is capable of pouring all that fiery passion into loving the woman (or man) (or both!) who can make him a better man. For me the appeal of the bad boy is knowing that underneath that tough, reckless, charming exterior is a man who’s hurting. He’s a man who’s hiding his insecurities and desire for love beneath a veneer of rebelliousness, anger and thrill seeking.

In One Wicked Night, out today, Tyler Wirth is a bad boy. Read more!

When Lost and Found was released as a digital book I blogged about how happy I was that Samhain had published this story. Because this book crosses genres and sub-genres, combining elements of women’s fiction, romance and erotic romance, it’s hard to categorize it, which many publishers like to do. In the digital publishing world, publishers can take chances on books that don’t fit the narrow genres and sub-genres of traditional publishers.

Lost and Found book has gotten such great reviews (check some of them out on my website or on Goodreads)> and is also a finalist in the Passionate Plume contest at the RWA Chapter Passionate Ink, which goes to show that taking a chance on something different can pay off!

I also broke some of the “romance rules” when I wrote this book, including elements are are typically considered “taboo” in a romance – infertility, infidelity, sex for the sake of making a baby. So is Lost and Found really a romance?
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A few weeks ago my print book Love 2 Love U was released. Love 2 Love U is an anthology of three novellas—Love Me, Love Me More and 2 Hot 2 Handle. All three of these stories have gotten great reviews and had great ebook sales, so it’s exciting to have them all together in one print volume Here's how one quick fantasy story turned into three popular stories.

Love Me was my very first published story. It was an exciting debut for me and I was so thrilled to get fan mail and some nice reviews for this story, not to mention awesome sales! Then I had another idea involving the same characters, so I wrote Love Me More. It still amazes me how easy those stories were to write. They are quite short, but they just seemed to flow out of me. I’m probably not remembering correctly, but I swear I wrote them each in about an hour. Okay, maybe not, but it was fast!

I wanted to make it a series of three stories because three’s a nice number, don’t you think? But then I got stuck. I really wanted to try my hand at writing a M/M/F or M/F/M ménage story, but I had a hard time imagining Gavin in bed with another dude. Eventually I gave up on that idea and decided Abby deserved her own love story. If anyone could handle two men, it was Abby! And there was 2 Hot 2 Handle.

An aside: Some of you may know that I did in fact come up with a way to get Gavin in bed with another guy, if you’ve read my Samhellion freebie Love Me Tonight

I have to say 2 Hot 2 Handle didn’t quite flow out of me as easily as the first two stories. In my first attempt at writing M/M, I stumbled and hesitated and questioned myself. It was hard. But I like getting inside the male mind and people seem to like my male characters, so I just wrote about two guys who love each other, and imagined what might make them want more. I know this is a fantasy for a lot of women – two hot guys who want to be with you but also with each other. In the end I hope I wrote a satisfying story about an unconventional love and I learned while writing this that love is the same whether it’s for another man, another woman, or both.

Not only was this my first M/M/F story, but it was the first ménage story I’ve written with a HEA for all three characters.

My characters become so real to me and I've become quite fond of all these characters after three books together!

Today my book Lost and Found is out with Samhain Publishing. Last week I blogged link about how this book didn’t fit in because it doesn’t fit in to the usual “genres”.

This manuscript was rejected a number of times before I sent it to Samhain. I wouldn’t normally talk about rejections because 1. I don’t want people to think this story is crap and 2. I don’t want people to think Samhain publishes crap! The reason I mention rejection is because I got an excellent rejection (if a rejection can ever be good!) that explained to me what the problem was with selling this story:
“…the manuscript sent on (date) was very well written. The characters were believable with interesting histories, the voice was on target for a romance novel, and the pacing was great. You have all the basic elements of a romance author that are so hard for most people to pin down.”

Then came the BUT:

“…it tackles issues normally reserved for “women’s fiction…and melds it with romance. In other words, it doesn’t fit quite right in either genre.”

Ack! My story didn’t fit in! And yet I wrote this story from the heart, and believed it had something to say about relationships in crisis and a woman learning about herself and growing, as well as a developing romance. So I submitted it to Samhain, and was thrilled when my editor offered a contract.

Last year there was much talk about the differences in the business models of digital publishers and traditional print publishers. Jane at Dear Author wrote:
“Creative Freedom As one author shared with me, she has much more freedom to write what she wants in digital publishing. There are fewer taboos and less stringent requirements to stick with one topic or one trope even if digital publishing is not immune to trends.” link

When I posted a comment there mentioning my own example of this, Lost and Found, I received several emails from interested readers wanting to know when the book would be out. There are readers who want stories that don’t fit the traditional genre rules.

Digital publishers can take chances on books that are different, books that don’t fit the traditional genres, or that cross genres. Lost and Found is one of those books – which is why I’ve dedicated this book to Samhain. Thank you, Samhain!

Kelly Jamieson
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Friends With Benefits

By Kelly.Jamieson on February 21, 2010

Friends with Benefits

I enjoy friends to lovers stories because I married one of my best friends. My husband and I were good friends for years before we fell in love, so I can totally relate to that scary of feeling of taking things to a different level. In Friends With Benefits, though, I twisted things up a bit. Kerri wants to get married, but after she and Mitch sleep together, she’s not sure where things are going so she suggests they can still be friends – they’ll just be friends with benefits. And she’ll keep looking for a husband. Another twist is when Mitch, the guy, is the one who ends up feeling used and guilty. I wrote part of this book while driving across the prairies and at that time I didn’t think what I’d written was that great, but when I read it later I saw the chemistry between Kerri and Mitch that somehow I had created!
So here’s a short excerpt from Friends With Benefits, now available in PRINT from Samhain!

Blurb:
Yoga is Kerri Harris’s life, but that doesn’t mean she’s a New Age flake. She’s a successful businesswoman, and it’s about time everyone took her as seriously as her mother-of-two, “real-career” sister. That means adding a new item to her spreadsheet—marriage plan. There’s only one person she trusts to help her check off this task: her best friend Mitch.
Divorce attorney Mitch MacAuley gets the cold shivers at the mere mention of matrimony. After the disasters he’s witnessed from childhood, marriage equals miserable. The last thing he wants is to help Kerri down that road, but he’s never been able to say no to her. He expects to feel pity for her as she goes on one disastrous date after another. The complete surprise? Thinking about Kerri with those other guys makes him crazy.
Her frustration collides with his confusion, leading to a big fight, a hot kiss and a scorching sexual tension that hits them both broadside. Prompting Kerri to propose a new plan…to add the bedroom to their list of BFF benefits.
They quickly find out there’s nothing casual about the heat they generate. In fact, the burn could ruin a perfectly beautiful friendship.
Warning: This story contains a late-night booty call, hot hotel sex and naked yoga!

This scene is at a cocktail party to celebrate the grand opening of White Lotus Spa and Yoga, a week after “the kiss”:

“Jack, do you know Kerri? She’s the owner of the yoga part of White Lotus. Kerri, this is Jack Farnham, one of my clients.”
Kerri reached out and shook his hand. “Pleased to meet you.”
Jack smiled at her admiringly. “Recently divorced,” he said. “Nice to meet you too.”
Shit. Mitch scowled. Kerri did not want to get messed up with this guy and all the baggage he carried around, not to mention a vicious, greedy ex-wife and three children whose custody had been a major battle. But Kerri was smiling at the guy.
“You don’t look like the typical spa customer,” she said, fluttering her long eyelashes at him.
He grinned. “I actually come every week for a manicure and a massage. Amanda is the best massage therapist I’ve ever had.”
Mitch’s frown deepened. Kerri nodded. “Yes, she’s great. Has she tried her new massage oil on you?”
“No…I don’t think so.”
Kerri nodded thoughtfully. “Probably too feminine a fragrance for you. You’ll have to check with her about some of the other oils she has.”
Mitch wrinkled his forehead. What the hell was she talking about? Oils?
“So,” Jack said, turning to Mitch. “I hear you’re trying some different things in your divorce work.”
“Like what?” Kerri asked, brows raised, looking from Jack to Mitch.
Mitch sighed. “I’ve been doing more and more dispute resolution work for couples that are divorcing.”
“Oh. But do they still get divorced?”
He laughed. “Well, yeah. I’m not a marriage counselor. I was getting frustrated at all the animosity and ugliness so I started trying to use some conflict resolution stuff to help them work things out. Not resolve their marital issues, although I have to say it has happened a couple of times. Mostly I just try to help work out how to divide assets, custody, stuff like that.”
“Oh. That’s what you were talking to my dad about last weekend.” He nodded. “I know you were getting a reputation as someone who could work any kind of deal out, no matter how bitter the couple was. So you’re actually doing more of that.”
He nodded again, her words warming him, and she met his eyes.
“Wow,” she said. “That’s really different for you. I thought all lawyers wanted to drag things out as long as possible so they could make as much money as they could.”
He let his breath out in a deflated whoosh. “You have such a high opinion of me.”
“So, what would be your advice to couples?” Jack asked. “Litigation? Mediation?”
“My advice would be to not get married,” Mitch said dryly, and everybody laughed. “Seriously. If they could only hear the horror stories of the hatred and destruction divorcing couples inflict on each other, they might think twice about getting married. They think they love each other and they don’t believe that in a few years, they’ll be emotionally and physically beating each other up, spending thousands of dollars fighting over a five-hundred-dollar painting or a dog, or accusing the other of child molestation or being a drunken slut.”
He felt Kerri’s eyes on him and glanced at her. She’d heard this stuff before, no surprise to her. But her eyes flashed and the corners of her mouth tipped down.
“You’re so cynical,” she said, everyone standing there listening. “You shouldn’t be talking like that in front of Hailey and Miguel. They’re getting married in two weeks. We should all be happy for them. So listen. Why does California have the most lawyers in the country while New Jersey has the most toxic waste sites?” She waited a beat.
No, Kerri, not now. He sighed inwardly.
“New Jersey got first choice.”
Everyone laughed.
“What’s the difference between lawyers and accountants?”
The others all grinned. “At least accountants know they’re boring.” They laughed again, except Mitch, who grimaced. She looked at him, shaking her head, a little smile playing on her pretty mouth. She continued, “What’s wrong with lawyer jokes?” She paused. “Lawyers don’t think they’re funny and no one else thinks they’re jokes.”
More laughter followed, and now Mitch shook his head, trying to be a good sport, but damn, these lawyer jokes were getting to him. It was fine when he knew she was just teasing him, but lately she’d been so cool to him it was tough to take it in a light-hearted vein. Sparks shot between them as they exchanged a glare.
“Would you two just stop it!” Hailey burst out. The group grew quiet. Kerri and Mitch both looked at her, startled.
“Uh…stop what?” Kerri asked, glancing at Mitch.
“What is with you two?” Hailey looked from one to the other. “Last night you two just kept at each other, pushing each other’s buttons, and tonight it’s even worse.”
“That’s how we talk to each other,” Kerri said in a small voice. “We like to tease each other.”
“There’s teasing and then there’s tormenting. I don’t get it. What’s going on?”
They were both silent, again glancing at each other.
“Nothing,” Mitch said finally. “Kerri, I think Sela and your parents are trying to get your attention.”
She looked across the room where they beckoned her over. “Excuse me.” She flashed an apologetic smile at Jack then separated from the group and went over to talk to their parents.
Hailey and Miguel also excused themselves.
“Wow,” Jack said under his breath as he and Mitch both watched Kerri walk away, the straps criss-crossing her smooth bare back, hips swaying under the filmy black skirt. “She’s hot. She single?”
She’d kill him, but… “She is, but she’s kind of flaky,” he told Jack. “Not your type at all.”